Relationships

Loving Your Inner Child: A Secret of True Happiness

by Barry Vissell. No one gets through childhood without some degree of wounding. If we stay blind to these wounds, they have a…
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Co-Sharing: An Alternative to Day Care

by Francesca Cappucci Fordyce. Parents, single or not, might consider co-sharing, i.e. families helping each other out. The…
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When Love Feels Weird: Dysfunctional Becomes Normal?

by Alan Cohen. We can become so used to dysfunctional relationships that when we are finally presented with a healthy one, it…
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Making Marriage Work With Children

by Francesca Cappucci Fordyce. In many marriages, women grow resentful of their husbands when they are expected to work, clean,…
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How To Be Happy! Stop, Think, Send Love & Let It Go!

by Sonia Ricotti. Victor Frankl said, “It’s the last of all human freedoms, the ability to choose.” We can choose to look at…
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How to Be Safe in Relationships? Open Your Heart

by Peter Fairfield. The heart is the organ of happiness! Of course I am talking about more than just the organ itself — I am…
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Is It Ever Too Late for Forgiveness or Gratitude?

by Stan Goldberg, PhD. The pain from the past that people experience often follows them to their deaths. I had been visiting…
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Sadness as a Meditation

by Osho. Sadness can become a very enriching experience. You have to work on it. It is easy to escape from your sadness — and all…
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Asking and Offering: The Art of Spiritual Trading

by Christina Baldwin. As a spiritual practice, when we ask for what we need and offer each other what we can, we enter a dance of…
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Holding a Grudge: Drinking Poison and Expecting the Other Person to Die

by Joyce Vissell. Is there a resentment that lives inside of you? When we first started our counseling practice, a woman came to…
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Intimate Relationships: Settle for Nothing Less Than Complete Honesty and Transparency

by Isha Judd. We all lie. How contradictory it is: we are taught as children that we must always tell the truth, that we…
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How Heavy is your Relationship Baggage?

by Dr. Lisa Love. Though relationships can provide a lot of pleasure and reward, they can also deliver their share of hurt, pain,…
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Choosing to Become a Wise Elder

by Denise Linn. When people lived in small communities and villages, they often felt a sense of connection to the past. There was…
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Where Has All The Parenting Gone: Schools Have Become The Parent?

by Bret Stephenson. School was never designed to replace parents, but that is what has happened. In the past, whether the parents…
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How to Move from Conditional Love to Unconditional Love

by Isha Judd. How can we tell if our intimate relationships are based on need or something deeper? Here I share some common…
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Finding Your Inner Goddess

by Jamie Rose. Take out your journal and write the names of two women you admire. Women who for you embody the word "god­dess."…
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How To Help Kids Have a Good Future

by Sharon Astyk. The best thing we can do is offer our children a good and protected childhood that simultaneously prepares them…
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Embracing Uncertainty -- Even in the Face of Fear

by Susan Jeffers, Ph.D. Certainly, in our role as parents, teachers, or care-givers, we watch as our children are shaken up by…
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The Road To Sexual Ecstasy: Awaken The Lover Within

by Margo Anand. In launching yourself into this adventure, your first question is likely to be "Where do I begin?" Many of my…
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Show Affection in Public Too: It's Not Taboo

by Barry Vissell. Women as well as men often receive strong indoctrination against showing love. It’s too often viewed as a sign…
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Community Celebrations and Dancing in the Streets

by Cecile Andrews. Why is joy so important? Because to inspire people to bring about change — to work to create a culture of…
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Exploring The Silence, A Little Bit at a Time

by Richard Mahler. A critical step in the embrace of silence and solitude is setting aside the notion that we have to be "doing…
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Listening to Ourselves

by Rebecca Z. Shafir, M.A. CCC. If we could listen to ourselves as we converse, we would probably be astounded at how often we…
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The Golden Rule in Reverse!

by Sarah McLean. If you find yourself time and again in relationships that make you feel unlovable, then you’re probably short on…
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The Preciousness of Life: Lessons from My Husband’s Near Death Experience

by Joyce Vissell. Several years ago my beloved husband of 40 years came very close to death. Yes, we are very grateful that he…
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“Am I Too Much for You?”

by Joyce Vissell. Do you ever wonder if you’re too much for those you love? Do you ever worry that you will burden them? Do you…
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Relationships? You're In The Driver's Seat

Relationships? You're In The Driver's Seat

Be giddy-happy about your understanding that everyone is a mirror for you and the people who show up in your life are there to show you how you feel about yourself. What a handy trick! Instead of striving in vain to get your needs met by others, you are now in the driver’s seat!

If you want respect from a boss, learn how to respect yourself. If you want passionate love from a partner, start loving yourself with passionate adoration. Your energy is their energy is everyone’s energy, and you have the power to create whatever you want!

The Enemy is Not Someone Else; The Enemy Is Unconsciousness

Since we’re all energetically intertwined, loving yourself and disarming your self-judgments benefits everyone else, too. There’s a Buddhist principle that says we all would love one another fully and completely if we were free of our limitations and masks. The enemy is never another person — the enemy is always unconsciousness. When we awaken consciousness in ourselves, we contribute immeasurably to the awakening of the world.

Relationships? You're In The Driver's SeatSay “I love you” silently in your head every time you interact with anyone. The busy barista at your favorite coffee shop. Your snooty hairdresser. Your meanest neighbor. Your cranky dry cleaner. “I see the divine in you.” “I love you.” “I feel the human connection between us right now.” You’ll be blown away by the magic that simple practice will create in your life.

Embracing The Full Truth of Where You Are

Are you accepting and enthusiastically embracing the full truth of where you are right now? Have you decided, definitively, that everything in your life has been absolutely as it was meant to be to bring you to this precise place? You get to choose your belief in this moment and in every future moment that you’re alive, so choose to see each moment as perfect!

If there’s something that comes up in any of those moments that you feel yourself having a negative feeling about, welcome the feeling and use your Judgment-Flipping skills to figure out what message the loving Universe is sending you. Learn from it, thank it, and rejoice, knowing that every time you do that you’re releasing the need to ever experience that particular type of unwanted circumstance again.

Loving The One You're With

Every moment truly is a perfect moment! How could it be otherwise? We can only move forward, but you’ve discovered that loving the hell out of this precise moment, exactly as it is, is the key to moving forward toward the kinds of experiences you most desire. Love and inspiration are all around you, all the time!

The Universe wants you to succeed and be happy. Living your unique, personal flavor of Juicy Joy is your highest calling! It’s so easy to love any moment, no matter what it brings, when you passionately love the company you’re keeping in that moment — which will always, without exception, be . . . glorious, gutsy, divine you.

©2012 by Lisa McCourt. All Rights Reserved,
Reprinted with permission of the publisher,
Hay House Inc. www.hayhouse.com


This article was adapted with permission from the book:

Juicy Joy: 7 Simple Steps to Your Glorious, Gutsy Self
by Lisa McCourt.

Juicy Joy: 7 Simple Steps to Your Glorious, Gutsy Self by Lisa McCourt.Juicy Joy is an invitation to a bigger life—a deeper, richer, more rewarding existence. It is a streamlined path to radical authenticity and the ability to flat-out adore that precious, imperfectly perfect you. Wouldn’t it feel amazing to trust your instincts and fearlessly act on them? Isn’t it time to gain mastery over your experience of life, shed victimhood, and learn to honor the voice within you that always, unfailingly leads you to your greatest joy and highest truth?

For more info and/or to order this book on Amazon, click here.


About the Author

Lisa McCourt, author of Juicy Joy: 7 Simple Steps to Your Glorious, Gutsy SelfLisa McCourt’s best-selling books about unconditional love have sold more five million copies. She has taught her juicy-joyful, sometimes shocking, always delicious methods to thousands in her popular presentations and online trainings. Lisa lives in sunny South Florida with her two self-loving kids. Visit her at: www.LisaMcCourt.com

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